Latchkey Kids.

Like many kids living in the Jungle, my brother and I were latchkey kids. A latchkey kid is a kid who comes home from school to an empty house without any adult supervision. To prevent them from losing their house key the key is worn around their neck.

Once my mother started to work more part-time hours up at the Eaton’s store she would not always be home when we got home from school. Both me and my brother were not allowed to go outside to play and we had to stay inside our apartment until she got home from work. Not only were we not allowed outside, but we were also forbidden to answer or even use the phone while she was at work.

Every afternoon my mother while working would call us at the exact same time to make sure we were both safe and sound inside our apartment. She had a secret code ring that she used for as long as I can remember. For the most part my brother and I went to different schools and would be home at different times. At 4 pm we would both be home and she would call us letting it ring just once then she would hang up. She would immediately phone us again and we would then be allowed to answer the phone.

We knew it was her.

I remember a few times forgetting and I answered the phone on her first ring and she got very angry. She would always remind me that someday my inability to follow simple instructions could cost me my life. Then she would quote the same bible scripture about being faithful in the little things then I was more likely to be faithful in the bigger things.

Blah Blah Blah.

So why was my mother so paranoid and overly protective of her two sons?

Her biggest fear was my brother and I falling prey to child molesters and homosexuals. She actually believed that evil men were lurking in our Lawrence Heights neighborhood and they were forever on the prowl searching for kids like my brother and I. They would be looking for latchkey kids heading home after school. Latchkey kids with their house key dangling from around their neck would be the telltale sign as to which kids were more than likely to be home alone after school.

My mother believed they would then follow us home and find exactly where we lived. They would then watch our comings and goings all the while planning their attack. Once they got our phone number they would call us to find out if we were at home alone.

Hence, the reason for my mother’s secret code ring.

If they got a busy signal then they knew we were at home and most likely we would be alone.

Hence, that would be the reason we were not allowed to even use the phone after school.

My mother even had extra long laces for our keys to be worn around our necks. It would then be harder for the key to pop outside of our shirts and become visible to any of those prowling perverts.

During the summer of 1977, Toronto was outraged after the murder of a twelve year old shoeshine boy named Emanuel Jaques. Emanuel was a popular little street kid who was very visible just outside of the Eaton’s Centre on Yonge Street. He earned extra money to help his impoverished family by shining shoes with his older brother at one of the city’s busiest intersections. One day Emanuel just simply disappeared and he was no longer working at his usual corner. Total strangers gathered together from everywhere to search for the little Portuguese boy.

Four days later his body was found on the roof of a building not far away from the corner where he shined shoes. He had been sexually assaulted and then drowned. Emanuel had been lured away by four homosexuals on the promise of earning thirty-five dollars to help them move some photographic equipment.

I was sixteen years old attending high school and working as a vendor at the Blue Jays games when Emanuel Jaques was murdered. My brother would have been thirteen years old; he was just a year older than Emanuel. The murder of the shoeshine boy shocked the city of Toronto right to the it's rotten core. The public outcry was so immense that the much needed cleanup of the dirty, sordid and seedy Yonge Street began almost immediately.

Emanuel’s murder by homosexuals just fueled my mother’s paranoia and ramped it up to the next level. Her paranoia now was not so much focused on me anymore, but more towards my brother. It also gave my mother the satisfaction that she had been right all along. By her being so strict with me and my brother for all those years, we never fell prey to any homosexuals like the little shoeshine boy.

She would never let my brother become the next Emanuel Jaques.

Over the course of me writing my memories, there are just so many and I wish I could write them all. Some I have forgotten only to remember them at a later date. However one thing I do remember, the 70's was a great decade for growing up a teenager. Although I may sometimes depict my life as if I was locked in a basement with a ball and chain around my ankle.

I wasn’t, far from it.

Like most teenagers I would always try to derive ways to outsmart my parents or in my case my mother. At times she could be equally just as smart and on the ball knowing exactly what I was scheming behind her back. She could also be just as equally naïve and not have a clue as to what I was up to. I was lucky; for the most part she had no clue. I was not a bad latchkey kid while growing up, I was obedient and I always for the most part did what my mother told me to do.

Why?

Because I lived in constant fear of my mother.

However, it was during my later teenage years that I did do some things I am not proud of and now wish I had never done. I did things that I knew my mother could never find out about. I have no doubt had she known I would have been turfed out from under her roof immediately. Although, that can also be said for most of the other kids who I associated with from our Kingdom Hall. We were all just teenagers being typical teenagers. Some of us learned from our mistakes while others just kept making the same mistakes over and over.

Back then we all had one common denominator; we were all being raised to be God fearing Jehovah’s Witnesses. Without any doubt or hesitation I can honestly say that my brother and I had it the toughest out of all of our JW friends.

Why?

Because both of us latchkey kids were being raised by the most devout, the most fanatical and the most obsessive Jehovah's Witness I ever knew.

Our mother.